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Why do mean always wanna have sex no whimsey or date culture
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Anonymous 17h

dating is a lot of work, men might feel like they have more pressure to be the pursuer, the one to pay for and plan dates and have more responsibility. a lot just don’t see it as worth it when they can get casual sex without the hassle

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Maybe they should just date people who want an equal relationship? Tons of us out there waiting for someone who isn’t pornbrained

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

no, the point is they don’t want a relationship. people should be free to pursue casual sex without judgement from others as long as they are honest it’s their partners about what they want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

i said “might” to explain some possible reasons why they might not want a relationship, but there are tons of reasons not to want a relationship in general.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

True, but they should stop going after people who are looking for something real. Like on dating apps where people specify that they’re looking for an actual romantic relationship and still get men sexualizing them and being pushy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

agreed

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