
i hate hate hate to be the bearer of bad news but i feel obligated to share because i learned this the unimaginably hard way: group chats who do this to you DO NOT LIKE YOU. please don’t waste your time trying to plan an event for people that probably talk shit behind your back. their silence is their answer; they’ve already got something planned, just without you. please, please forget about it and leave them, just do so silently. if they fuss, ignore it.
yeah i called them out on it and how im the only one ever putting effort into our friendships and they all blocked me. the little sibling of one of them who i was still friends with told me everything too. they thought i was faking a fucking medical diagnosis and talked so much horrible shit everything i knew about them turned out to be so fake holy shit
just another forewarning: they will talk shit about you for the rest of your life. they’re insecure people and need a scapegoat to take away from all of their issues. i’m still dealing with it years later and they’re like oil barons! they have monopolies on all these clubs and it’s hard to meet new people that DON’T hate me because of them. i’m taking it to the dean and i suggest you do the same