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My bf just texted me saying that he has mono. We haven’t seen eachother in over a month at this point. The odds are really low that I gave it to him, right? To my knowledge I’ve never had mono myself unless I was asymptomatic as a kid with it.
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Anonymous 7w

I’m not concerned about him cheating btw, I’m just asking about the contagiousness of it. I did a little reading that says it never really goes away which has me a bit spooked

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Anonymous 7w

It’s pretty rare if you had it as a kid and it recurred asymptotically as an adult, but mono is a very common herpesvirus and hopefully it won’t recur in him again. Speaking as someone who got mono this way from a hookup🥲

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Anonymous 7w

It can be contagious for 4-6 weeks before symptoms

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

You can get it from improperly cleaned silverware at restaurants which is so gross to think about. Or if he accidentally drank out of someone else’s cup, or maybe someone was sick and handled food he ate.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Public water fountains if someone put their mouth on it, ect

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

To my knowledge he only ever accidentally swaps cups with family sometimes and no one else has it but you have a good point. Thank you for the info :)

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