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I want my bf to open the door for me and give me flowers etc more but I don't want to ask. But I know I have to because duh communication. I've tried dropping hints but he doesn't get it. I feel sorta silly for wanting these things but
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Anonymous 1w

Not silly!! But clear communication is key, we have to keep in mind that he would probably LOVE to do these things for you but he’s also not a mind reader. Ik it can be hard to voice what we want but growth happens in those uncomfortable moments. Wishing you and him the best 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I know! I also know it's not okay for me to be upset about things if I'm not going to voice what I want. I just wish he thought of these small things by himself. Like i genuinely cannot remember the last time he got me flowers it's been so long. I bake him stuff all the time and do him favors all the time. I just don't always feel like he thinks of me in those ways :/

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