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Girl Talk 1w
Has anybody ever thought about this? It’s like giving Miss honey vibes. obviously I would wait until I’m 25 at least
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Anonymous 1w

Noooo, pls don’t use adoption as a family planning tool. That’s not what it’s meant for. It should be child centered

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Well, I do wanna have a family one day which wrong with adoption I was adopted

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Adoption is for a child in need not for the adult in need of a child

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Well, I’m going to adopt because well that’s what I wanna do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

What about what’s best for the child? It shouldn’t be about YOU

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

And like I said, I’m gonna adopt when I’m older?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

When I am ready to have a kid?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You can’t force someone to not adopt someone I would probably do it out of the foster care system anyway because that’s how I was adopted

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

How are still not getting that your decision is not child centered 😭 and what if a child in need of external care doesn’t want their birth records and family history altered?

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Anonymous 1w

When you when you adopt a child, they become part of your family

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Way better than being the foster care system for your whole childhood now that shit will traumatize you

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Anonymous 1w

What? 😭 I don’t think you’re educated on adoption and what it does in the US

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’ve lived through adoption, and of course, I am educated on it. You clearly don’t seem educated on it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Whooosh. And it’s actually about ownership not family

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Your last name changes in your parents can change your name when they adopt you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Sorry you need to do more research

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

You know what I’m just blocking you because you have no clue what adoption process is. I was happy to be adopted when I was seven.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah that’s fucked up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I already know all about the Foster care system in the US I lived through it and many people in my family are foster parents

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I think you’re confusing adoption with the foster system. The goal of fostering is parent reunification. The goal of adoption is to find a permanent home for the child.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’m so confused, would you rather have kids adopted by people who DONT want a kid???

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