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"you have a naturally flirty personality i thought you were into me." no. i was NICE to you. God forbid a woman be kind to a man. i have a bf too and he decided it was okay to "flirt back" but after he met him he decided it was fucked up? why does-
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Anonymous 7w

i'm fucking SICK of every male friend treating me like this and then switching up when i reject them. im not a fucking object to lust over. i'm a person. i just want a fucking friend? it's like they don't see women as individuals

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Anonymous 7w

i'm not flirting with you, i'm treating you with HUMAN DECENCY. says a lot about how he views women.

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Anonymous 7w

why does it take knowing my bf to come to the conclusion it's fucked up? couldn't have gotten that from me just being in a relationship?

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Anonymous 7w

i'm so angry right now i thought he was such a good friend until this moment.

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Anonymous 7w

This is my like biggest fear bc I’m just friendly and nice to everyone, that’s just how I am, and I get so uncomfortable when people think I was hitting on them. Like gosh, can I not be a friendly person without someone thinking I have ulterior motives?

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Anonymous 7w

This!! I’d been w my bf for six months and my guy friend was ENGAGED when he came to me and said we either had to make it official or cut it off. Sir??? Make WHAT official??? We’d literally been on double dates w me+bf and him+fiance. I never spoke to him again. I was so fucking angry, so fucking hurt. I guess I still am bcos that was five years ago lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Had someone do this to me last year when I thought we were just becoming really close friends. They he tried to like politely reject me, and I was so confused. Apparently he was into me, thought we were flirting, then when he realized it wasn’t a fit- cut me off. And I just thought we were becoming good friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

man i'm so sorry :(( i've also always gotten uncomfortable when people think im hitting on them, especially now that i have a bf. im just a naturally bubbly person and i want everyone to be included but it gets misinterpreted and it makes me feel horrible sometimes. can a person just not be nice?? i completely understand that!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Oh and me n my bf have now been together for five and a half years 🥰 idk how fuckhead n his wife are doing. I told her about everything and she threatened to stab me if I told anyone, so I’ve stayed far away from that entire mess

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