This!! I’d been w my bf for six months and my guy friend was ENGAGED when he came to me and said we either had to make it official or cut it off. Sir??? Make WHAT official??? We’d literally been on double dates w me+bf and him+fiance. I never spoke to him again. I was so fucking angry, so fucking hurt. I guess I still am bcos that was five years ago lmfao
Had someone do this to me last year when I thought we were just becoming really close friends. They he tried to like politely reject me, and I was so confused. Apparently he was into me, thought we were flirting, then when he realized it wasn’t a fit- cut me off. And I just thought we were becoming good friends
man i'm so sorry :(( i've also always gotten uncomfortable when people think im hitting on them, especially now that i have a bf. im just a naturally bubbly person and i want everyone to be included but it gets misinterpreted and it makes me feel horrible sometimes. can a person just not be nice?? i completely understand that!