I am somewhat enabling him by agreeing to come over but I don’t want to be rude and say no I don’t want to hang out. and then this morning he low key blamed me for him not being able to work because I was there when HE was the one who wanted me to go get food with him and stay over because he was sad. he was like ugh I’m used to just waking up and rolling over and working. well how does that explain you not having done shit at 4 when I left at noon