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Is it bad that I am literally terrified to be alone w a man. like guys keep texting me to come over but I am so scared.
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Anonymous 1w

Bad in the sense as it makes life a lot harder for you? Yes. Bad as in abnormal or wrong of you to feel? No. Advice: Therapy and having friends vet men for you so you can be comfortably around them with exposure.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 1w

like i can be around my friends that are boys alone but its like the second a man ik likes me wants to like hangout i freak out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Aahhh so specifically the change of intimacy that scares you? Like that he will try to be closer with you?

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 1w

yessss. like i am not tryna get down w u

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Lmaoo I think that’s super valid and honestly a good way to deal with it is just ask upfront if he likes you and let him know you aren’t interested in doing anything

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