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how do i tell my boyfriend that im so grateful he goes my dishes and puts them away, but when he does id like him to put them back where they belong and get all the soap off
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Anonymous 17h

my lobster too buttery of whatever the saying is…I’m happy for you girlll😭 but yea maybe like try to not make it sound like his fault or like hmm idk that’s a weird thing to get upset over cause why would u not get all the soap off in the first place lol

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Anonymous 17h

the past few times i have he’s gotten upset

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Anonymous 16h

Just like how you typed it out. It’s okay to bring a problem to someone whether you’re grateful or not. Men are not children doing favors for you, they’re grown adults that should be open to correction, especially if there’s still soap on the dishes. My friends and family make an environment comfortable enough to where correction isn’t seen as something negative since we’re…adults.

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