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please help how do i get my roommate to start cleaning up after herself. her dirty dishes have been in the sink for 2 MONTHS her dogs hair is all over the living room and kitchen, she never takes out the trash it’s pmo am
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Anonymous 7w

Position it by asking if she's been doing okay recently because you've been noticing that she's been isolating herself and leaving things unfinished

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Anonymous 7w

also she just sits in her room all day

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Anonymous 7w

and yes i’ve asked her over and over again in person and through text so have my other roommates

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Sounds depressed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

no she’s always done that, she’s fine just super lazy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

No one enjoys isolating themselves and being messy, I'd urge you to genuinely ask her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

she said from the beginning she just keeps to herself

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

could be because she’s isolating on purpose. but that doesn’t mean she WANTS to be isolating. depressed ppl will pretend they are fine with their depressed traits but really we aren’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

omg literally no reason she can’t clean up after herself it’s been months god

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

yes it’s wrong that she won’t but depression is quite literally a reason people don’t clean up after themselves 😭 listen u don’t have to like her but if u want the problem fixed, this is the best route to take

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

People with depression sometimes can barely care for themselves, I'd simply tread lightly. It's fine if you guys aren't a good fit, but if you don't even feel like asking her if she's okay- you guys should probably go your separate ways. Bc living together isn't going to be good for either of you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I meant to reply to OP

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