And ofc men can cry and should be vulnerable and I always did my best to comfort him and everything but it’s still fucking awkward when someone is on top of you and starts sobbing twice a week for six months. I asked him if he just wanted to not have sex for a while and he said I’d probably cheat on him (which was entirely baseless lmfao he actually ended up cheating on ME)
I was with a guy who considered himself a lot less attractive than me and so did all of his friends, it really got in the way of our relationship and I could tell he would bully me because of it. It was annoying that he took it out on me because I never once perpetuated the idea, I was legit attracted to him