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i would actually 100% never date someone who was still in regular contact with an ex
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Anonymous 7w

Why?? Idk like id never ever ever text my ex but as a lesbian thatd be a hard af rule to follow to not date ppl who are still friend with their ex

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Anonymous 7w

Smart

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

i'm straight so i'd never trust a man to be tht way w an ex gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

seconding this! in queer spaces there are both few options for community members and very few options for people to date. these two groups usually overlap almost fully. can’t be holding up strong fences between people cause you’re all active in the same small community. i’m friends with pretty much every lesbian on campus and we all hang out despite everyone having a dating history with each other and their friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I do feel queer communities are basically proof you can stay friends with an ex and be normal about it. I’ve known straight people who do it as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Id also say with at least my community a much looser gooser grasp on monogamy so like what if my gf was talking with her ex i dont think me or my gf's gf would care

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