Anonymous #1 13w

i’m 21, he’s 28, she was a teen pregnancy

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Anonymous OP 13w

I'm 24, turning 25 soon. I wouldn't look twice at a 21 yr old. So why would a 28 yr old man be pursuing you? A 28 yr old with a preteen daughter?

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Anonymous #1 13w

i’m unsure, my guard is still up bc that thought is at the back of my mind. it’s just hard for me to date men my own age bc i’m recently divorced with a toddler :/

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Anonymous OP 13w

While that's understandable (the men my age suck too), 28 is still a big leap for someone who's still 21. He might see commonality because it seems like you both had kids very young, but you're still at very different life stages

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Anonymous #2 13w

tbh i was under the impression that it was casual until this so that’s (partially) why i was okay with it

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Anonymous OP 13w

you can be casual with people your own age. i’d break it off if i were you.

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Anonymous #2 13w

i’m not getting into the morality i just wanted advice on what to do

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Anonymous OP 13w

getting into morality is inherent in asking for advice, and as a 30 y/o lady, i think you should break it off.

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Anonymous #2 13w

look, i really appreciate the concern, but i was really just looking for a fling. i’m moving almost 1.5k miles away in august so none of this will matter by the end of summer 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 13w

GIRL then why are you literally asking if you’re just going to be sassy with people who give you a direct response and explanation???

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Anonymous #2 13w

i was asking about the daughter situation, not him?????

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Anonymous OP 13w

and i’m telling you the best way to remedy the daughter situation is to break up with him, because it’s inappropriate his daughter is that close in age to you

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Anonymous #2 11w

yeah girl you’re right i had to teach him how to use an oven last night 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 11w

there’s no reason beneficial to you that a guy goes for someone way younger, bestie. best case scenario he’s just immature for his age, and you deserve better than that.

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