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How come girls make fun of me for going after guys I like and am attracted to instead of going for what’s conventionally/socially attractive? Sure he may not be that tall or that muscular, and he may have long hair, but I like that and find him hot
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Anonymous 2w

People suck and have been force-fed beauty standards since they were born sadly. Ppl used to tease me for my celebrity crush being Paul Dano, jokes on them he’s fine and we’re married in my head

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Anonymous 2w

Lowkey I find this happens a lot with heavier or fat guys too. A lot of women AND men cannot fathom that I am just as attracted to a skinny guy as a fat one

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Anonymous 2w

Are these your friends or people you surround yourself with or no? Tbh I’ve never had this happen and I definitely don’t go for conventionally attractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Very true, used to get a lot of judgement for my ex bc he has a dad bod

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

And to be fair my friends are probably not the most conventionally attractive either so I guess that applies with who I go for that with friends either

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Well a lot of them aren’t, I’ve had some people I don’t even know ask me why I’m with my man which is wild. But also my best friend loves to like silently judge my choices which is wild bc she’s a virgin who hates men and has incredibly unrealistically high standards

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Maybe it’s where you live bc I also feel like most men around me aren’t very stereotypically attractive whatsoever, big men with neck beards type 😭

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