
I’ve been long distance with my boyfriend for three years now since we started dating in highschool and both went to diff colleges, but we’ve made it work by visiting at least once a month (we’re only a couple hours drive) and we both go to state schools so our breaks are at the same times
It was kinda hard at first and there were def ups and downs but we agreed to focus on our college lives, and put our education and future careers first for these four years. Even though the distance can be really hard at times, Im grateful that we both have the space to focus on ourselves. And getting to grow up and become adults together while still having the space to prioritize friendships and experiences outside of each other is honestly a gift.
I will say tho if u are crying all the time that’s not rlly a good sign and if u aren’t able to enjoy ur college experience bc ur just sad all the time, that might be a sign that ld just doesn’t work for you and you’d be happier cutting ur losses and eventually finding someone more local