Break up with him, sounds like he doesn’t respect you

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It would be one thing if he never went out and you were upset about this type of behavior happening one or two times. But if he’s been going out every weekend since April/May and refused to take a break for even one to spend time with you that’s insane. He clearly cares more about impressing his boys than impressing you and that’s a big problem.

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it 100% sounds like yall aren't even in a relationship. stop trying to give him time to change and leave, because he clearly does not give a single fuck about how you feel

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I’ve expressed like I feel like I’m being left in the shadows because I’m 19 and I can’t go out like he can. But he told me it’s not gonna change so I need to figure out a way to be okay with it. He goes out with people I don’t like and does certain illegal activities I don’t like as well. He never do any of this before he turned 21. I’ve told him I’m bothered by this and I just want like a weekend where we can spend time together or do something instead of him rushing away at 10 pm cause- pt2

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He can’t let his boys down. He won’t text me back at all or respond to me although I know he’s active and I told him like hey can you please respond like I get it your out but being ignored for 5 hours isn’t fun. Am I like overthinking or being controlling here? Or is it valid to feel this way? (Final pt)

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Update- I talked to him today and gave him an ultimatum of either things need to change because this is exhausting or it’s over. So he said he’ll change. We will see…

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AYO YALL RIGHT HE DOESNT CHANGE

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