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Been talking to someone a couple months. Only been within 1 hr of him for less than a week total and he came to see me once. We talk every day, but the distance makes it hard to feel connected. He wants something serious but i’m not sure … Thoughts?
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Anonymous 5w

Im going through the same thing. I’m personally willing to take on the emotional burden of not feeling super connected until we can live at least in the same city. But it all depends on what you think is best for yourself. Cause I will say it’s really hard and there are lots of tears on my end

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Part of me is like .. is it going to be any damn different ? but then part of me is like .. i like him and want to see but it’s like UGH

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

No I totally get that. I’m kinda on the fence about leaving my talking stage. But I’m also someone that was always taught to fight for what you want so that’s what I continue to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Even tho it lowk breaks me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

no same it SUCKS

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah all of my friends are so disappointed they’ve noticed me as a person sort of changing because it’s breaking me. But I’m also actively working on my anxious attachment style and it’s DRAINING trying to keep myself in the present and calm. I’m not doing great at it

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