Anonymous #1 1d

LOL no it’s not Some people don’t have social media so they give out phone numbers

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Anonymous #2 1d

Why do you want someone else who it’s your partner on your social media? There’s no reason to keep someone like that on your socials unless you aren’t loyal

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Anonymous #1 1d

What? You didn’t read what I said AT ALL I said some people DONT HAVE an Instagram or Snapchat or ANY social media. So how do they keep in touch with people? They give their phone number to talk to them.

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Anonymous #2 1d

still a way to keep in contact, therefore intent is it not

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Anonymous #3 1d

Uh what?? So someone can’t CONTACT the opposite gender? Is that what you said?

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Anonymous #2 1d

Everyone’s relationship is different, but why would your girl be texting other dudes? Esp if they go up and ask for their #, nah.

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Anonymous #1 1d

BECAUSE THEY ARE FRIENDS You think women can’t have MALE FRIENDS just because they’re in a relationship!!!

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Anonymous #1 1d

You seriously think women can’t have MALE FRIENDS while they’re in a relationship or want to keep in touch with their male friends???!!

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Anonymous #2 1d

Hence why I said every relationship is different, everyone has their different boundaries. You getting so pressed for what. I wouldn’t want my bf texting other girls, and if he gave his # out that would be weird lol. It’s not that difficult to understand

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Anonymous #1 1d

I just ASKED you. Do you have ZERO male friends?? You wouldn’t give your social media to a male friend?? Some people don’t have insta or snap so they give out their phone numbers. What you said only makes sense if you don’t have any male friends….

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Anonymous #1 1d

If everyone has “different boundaries,” then don’t go around talking like YOUR boundaries are the right ones Don’t say “intent to cheat sorry” as if YOU get to make the rules. No you do not.

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Anonymous #2 1d

I bet you pressed cuz u be giving out yo # to everyone like it’s free p huh 😭 nope I don’t talk to other guys like that out of respect. I don’t really want to either, kinda weird to want to talk to guys when you’re in a relationship like that. If that’s you then you go ahead do allat no need to get defensive just say it

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Anonymous #2 1d

The same logic could be applied to what you’re saying goofy. You suspiciously upset, guilty much?

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Anonymous #1 1d

ZERO male friends? That is WEIRD. Ok then, just don’t say “intent to cheat sorry” as if you get to make the rules for everyone Yeah say what you want Ms Insecure, but your bf CAN have female friends if he wants and you CAN have male friends if you want. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you can’t have friends anymore

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Anonymous #1 1d

I am not the one who said “everyone makes their own rules” YOU said that So don’t be a hypocrite. Don’t say “instant to cheat sorry” when you ALSO pretend that everyone can make up their own mind. Then don’t butt in and tell people if something is cheating or not. Stay in your own lane

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Anonymous #2 1d

No having friends of the same gender is not weird. I’m aware that I could have male friends if I wanted, but guess what I don’t want to again out of respect. It’s not that difficult of a concept to understand. Giving out your number to randos while in a relationship is not loyal sorry you don’t understand that. I hope your miserable love life gets better and someday you can understand that having boundaries is ok 🫶

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Anonymous #2 1d

gang it’s a boundary 😭 my girl doesn’t want me having girls on my phone and i don’t want her having guys on hers. it’s a simple thing to understand.

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Anonymous #2 1d

It’s not hypocritical to say that while some people are ok w male/female friends, randomly giving out our number it’s not. You are very defensive which makes me think you’re the type of person I’m talking about. No reason to get angry and irrational just say it 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #1 1d

Oh I have boundaries sweety 🫶 I just have more male friends than you because I’m not insecure or close minded enough to believe that people can’t have friends of the other gender without catching feelings. Having friends of the other gender is NOT cheating. But you can keep being insecure if you want 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #2 1d

With the way you act I seriously doubt that. What kind of childish argument: “I can’t come up with anything better to say so I’m going to tell you about allll the friends I have and accuse you of being insecure 🥺🥺” pick me behavior. Good luck

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Anonymous #1 1d

I never said I don’t have male friends. “Just say it”? I already said it if you know how to read Again, don’t write “everyone can have their own rules” while ALSO acting like you get to set the rules. Nope, YOU don’t get to say “intent to cheat sorry” because it’s NOT UP TO YOU. It’s up to the person in the relationship to choose, NOT you. So stfu

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Anonymous #2 1d

literal panties in a wad btw

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Anonymous #1 1d

You have ZERO male friends. ZERO. Not hard to “beat” how many MALE friends I have when you only have girls. Not hard at all

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Anonymous #2 1d

You are so mad and yet you obviously didn’t get the point 😂

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Anonymous #2 1d

The fact that you think having male friends is a hierarchy is so strange and so male centered. Please get some help and realize that you don’t need to have male friends to have value 🫶

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Anonymous #1 1d

Nope I think you can have male OR female friends I think ANYONE with single gender friends is a RED FLAG If the guy has ZERO female friends he is WEIRD AF. Sorry!! Your bf has ZERO female friends?? That is WEIRDDD

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Anonymous #1 1d

do people not give you their number because they want to be your friend? this has happened to me several times lol, acting like it’s just for relationships is crazy

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Anonymous #4 1d

giving your number to someone at all isn’t inherently cheating. maybe there’s a specific context y’all are referring to, or y’all don’t interact with strangers/acquaintances much other than asking them out, but this seems like a strange generalization

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Anonymous #4 1d

Exactly. Some people also don’t have an insta or snap so they give their phone instead These comments are acting like you can’t have friends anymore if you’re in a relationship. Literally one of the girls (#1 who you replied to) is saying she has ZERO male friends and says she thinks it’s CHEATING to have guy friends?? That is WAY too far

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