Anonymous #2 2d

A baby that comes after infant loss (miscarriage, stillborn, etc.)

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Anonymous #1 2d

OMG YEAH SAME 😭😭😭 not to date myself but it wasn’t really a “thing” when I was a baby. People didn’t just make shit up like that for social media clout or whatever

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Anonymous OP 2d

Social media was def not a thing when I was born, besides I guess AOL if you can even count that?? But maybe that’s why lol my parents also had me a bit later in life since my mom had 2 miscarriages so they weren’t young and with the times by the time I came along

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Anonymous #1 2d

And maybe it’s just me, but I feel like it kinda paints the situation of miscarrying and later having a healthy baby as being rare, when it’s a lot more common that you’d think. it’s just not talked about.

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Anonymous darkside. 2d

I work in veterinary so when it comes to dead babies esp around breeding season it doesn’t affect me much. Idk maybe I’m a psychopath but somebody’s gotta do it

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Anonymous OP 2d

I’ve been desensitized

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Anonymous OP 2d

I think it affects me so much because she’s my mama, and if it helps her find joy to call me that then I’m happy about it

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Anonymous #1 2d

Oh yeah it totally is. My mom delt with it, my grandma, my aunt, like all the women in my family

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Anonymous OP 2d

We did not evolve to have easy, successful, abundant pregnancies and childbirth! It’s much more rare to have zero complications and only success with pregnancy. Even after my mom did IVF for me, I still didn’t have a heartbeat when I was supposed to (thank god the gyno told her to come back in a week to make sure before they would terminate the pregnancy)

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