HELLO this sounds exactly like one of my friends’ situations?? I know you care about frog, but he doesn’t have your best interests in mind. He’s selfish and jealous, and he’s probably baiting you into feeling bad just so that you can come running back to him before he leaves you. Rat sounds like a better guy, but if it’s just a situationship with no real feelings attached, it’s probably best that you’re doing what you’re doing ONLY until college. Then get out of the drama as quick as you can