Anonymous #1 10w

Look I’m actually just mad at the fact that discover isn’t letting me go paperless like excuse me, why not, I’m an adult just let me do what I want. Also I’m in the process of becoming independent, like my parents won’t let me leave the house, I have a license but no car and I’m not allowed to drive my parents even though I’m on their insurance, so I can’t have a job, I don’t have a degree yet so it’s bad, I just applied to 100 scholarships and when I get money I’m moving out but until then (1)

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Anonymous OP 10w

I can’t do nothing, cuz my mom was all like I should get a job then ur father would drive u, yeah the father who assaulted me can drive me. How abt a no

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Anonymous OP 10w

omg girl. praying x10 i’m really glad you’re in the process of getting out of that situation. also discover actually sucks for that, have you tried calling them?

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Anonymous #1 10w

Yeah and they said that I can only do it through their app or website, which I did but otherwise they won’t let me do it by call, like their customer service sucks

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Anonymous OP 10w

damn, i really hope it works this time. also it feels illegal to go through someone else’s mail so that’s also crazy in and of itself

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Anonymous #1 10w

I mean my parents pay for my food and housing so ofc they feel that they can go through my mail at any time, and religiously they feel like they own me until I’m married. It’s not the religion it’s the culture associated with religion, my parents get that confused but no. Like it’s illegal for them to go through my mail

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Anonymous OP 10w

gagged. are you planning on getting housing at your college? if so i’d definitely go about getting your parents off your bank account so they don’t retaliate by draining it, but also timing that with move in. this is a very tricky situation and you have ALL of my support

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Anonymous #1 10w

So I’m draining this account cuz I go to college out of state and I don’t have access to the account outside my home state, so when I’m in college. And my parents didn’t let me make another account. So I have a lot of cash on me but I’m looking for a new bank. But my only worry is my credit card, like they can’t spend on it but they can see my charges

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Anonymous OP 10w

gotcha, see if you can change the address to your dorm/apartment in the meantime while you’re trying to get it digital.

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Anonymous #2 10w

I don’t have another address rn, I couldn’t get housing cuz I’ll be enrolled in 4 credits, so I’m looking for off campus housing and on campus mailing sucks. Basically were figuring the housing part out rn, idk what to do for now

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Anonymous OP 10w

do you have a friend that’ll let you address it to their house while you figure it out?

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Anonymous OP 10w

A P.O. box might also be an option if you’re willing to pay for it

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Anonymous #1 10w

Not really all my friends are with their strict parents rn

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Anonymous #2 10w

I can’t leave my house and I’m broke

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Anonymous OP 10w

would it be possible for you to check the mail before them?

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Anonymous #1 10w

I will try, but we have cameras outside so it’s sus if I do if

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Anonymous OP 10w

It

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Anonymous OP 10w

do you have like cousins or aunts/uncles or someone who will take the mail for you 😭

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Anonymous #1 10w

I wish, my family is just too controlling

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Anonymous #1 10w

or at this point take you so you can get out of this awful rapunzel situation

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