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Idk what to do like me and my bf had this huge argument and since then he’s been getting more distant like we don’t be otp like we used to, we stopped gts otp, his otg all the time, and he hasn’t said ily in idk how long idk maybe im just overthinking it
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Anonymous 12w

Maybe have a talk with him about it. That’s the first thing i would do. You should ask him why he’s being distant sense the argument, and ask him what he’s been thinking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I want to but I feel it’s going to start another argument and he already told me he’s tired of me overthinking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

You should tell him then if he’s tired of you overthinking then maybe he needs to start doing things to make you feel more comfortable. I’ve had this problem with past relationships so I’ve made it very clear in my current relationship that i like reassurance. But you should also just be straight up and say: “I’m not overthinking, i can tell that you’ve genuinely been more distant since the argument. And i would like to figure out what’s wrong so we can work through it”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Ok I’ll try and talk to him thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I’m here to help if you need any more advice after the conversation 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Ok so I tried talking to him but I’ve been left on read…

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