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Girl Talk 5w
WHY do men get on dating apps, talk to you for days, then say "actually i'm not looking for anything rn"? like you are on HINGE why tf were you here in the first place???
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Anonymous 5w

I talked to a dude for like a month and he seemed so excited for us to go out (we had to wait a while bc he was out of town) and then he just un added me ??? Like bro you spent a month replying to my texts immediately

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Anonymous 5w

I straight up had “long term relationship” as my preference in Hinge and this one dude started a convo with me and suddenly went “gotta be honest I’m actually not looking for anything serious, but would you wanna hookup today”

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Anonymous 5w

a “figuring out my goals” matched with me and we talked for three months and I had long term on my profile the whole time and he broke my heart I’m never doing this again

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Anonymous 5w

Because so many men want the benefits of being in a relationship with a woman, but then they realize that they have to actually commit and put in effort to keep quality women. So they decide it’s not worth it, and settle for casual hookups instead.

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Anonymous 5w

im convinced that unlike girls, guys don’t check out the profile and just look at the pictures (they’re illiterate)

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Anonymous 5w

ngl girl if they’re on hinge they just wanna hook up

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

no fr, this dude had a "long term" preference and then today said "i don't think i can take this any further" after talking for three days. like fuck you then

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’m talking to one rn who actually seems genuine yall pray for me 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

if he seems like that, HE AINT SHIT! you are a PRIZE girly and you deserve a man who wants you and treats you like the queen you are 🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Oh trust don’t worry I’m like the pickiest girl alive haha! Thank u tho!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Three months and no date?? Oh girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

no we went on four dates and then two months after the fourth one he told me he wants to be friends </3

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Oh nooo ☹️ that’s crazy, where do some men get the audacity

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

idk girl so basically I’m unlovable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Nah babe. The men are shit, not you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Doubting that😭I must be shit for being single this long

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

girl i’ve been single for a long time and im not shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

no girl I’m sure you aren’t I just think that abt myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

yeah but it makes no sense that you’d think that way if we’re in the same boat and i’m not shit!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

it’s just my own self esteem I have a hard time with believing there is anything about me that’s worth or deserving of a good relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

no i know. i just wanted to point out its irrational :) dont let the negativity in your head skew your sense of reality too much. and dont let these little boys who don’t even know how to access their emotions make you feel unworthy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

i thought hinge was the place for actual shit. like tinder is for hookups and hinge is for an actual relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

see that’s so interesting cause i’ve heard more the opposite but i think both are hookup apps fr

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I thought so too. But I guess any app can turn into a hookup app if enough men like that are on it.

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