THIS!! bc i’m genuinely convinced that people who say that have zero media literacy skills and don’t use their brains when they consume media. like do y’all not have critical thinking skills and just blindly agree to everything you watch and listen to?? this is my very first time watching love island and i have so many critiques of this show. watching it is giving me clarity of what i don’t want in a relationship. like why assume people are taking actual dating advice from this show??
had a guy yesterday deadass tell me all of the girls on love island were mid and ugly… no i’m not joking. men will really call conventionally attractive women ugly bc they’re so incredibly misogynistic they can’t comprehend a woman truly looks that good. it’s giving pick me choose me love me.
More or less I mean, if I need to break it down for you. Think about your porn example above. I think you do understand what you consume is what you become. Men start out with porn with zero weird kinks, then as they dive deeper the “develop” more. Get it? It’s not a oh I’m gonna just become that person, you change mindsets, habits ect.
No but read between the lines and don’t take things so literally? The POINT is they started watching something and subconsciously it started changing the way they think. You can be a critical thinker and watch these shows but you can’t change what your subconscious picks up? But yall love yalls shows and I’m not saying don’t watch anything. I’m just saying reality tv is shown the way it is for a reason. They want it to become your reality too. I’m stating an opinion of my own