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How do yall feel about men asking you out and then asking what you wanna do? This is after I’ve given him the full run down of what I like to do and eat btw. I also communicated that I appreciate chivalry and men taking initiative on our first date sooo
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Anonymous 4d

i've never given a fuck i'll reply "you decide!" i'm not doin all that and if they can't then they can leave

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Anonymous 4d

immediately no. it shows lack of effort. i’m not planning my own date 😭

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Anonymous 4d

Thats an ick its so unattractive but unfortunately u cant really say anything like u cant “im the girl u plan the date” so u just gotta move forward and plan it urself lmao be the man for ur princess

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Anonymous 4d

it’s basically up to you if you want to continue to engage since he’s not the type to take the lead and be thorough on your behalf especially since you already gave him what he needs and double especially for the very first date if he doesn’t plan any other date top to bottom it should be the first imo

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Anonymous 4d

If he doesn’t plan it he’s got to go.

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