UGH why would a man be here

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Who commit 97% of violent crimes? Not women that’s for sure. 1 in 3 women will be harmed at the hands of a man. So yeah men are not the good ones

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Anonymous OP 1w

They spy in women’s spaces to know how to better harm them unfortunately.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Holy fade

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You right

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Anonymous #1 1w

Rly? I thought gay guys were better

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Anonymous #3 1w

I just discovered I’m bi and oh wow, this is so much better. I understand now why men will say “I love you” and call me their soulmate way too early in the relationship. I’m having the same thoughts already (but not saying them out loud). Women are amazing

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Anonymous #10 1w

Not in the slightest, they just direct it at other men not at women so you do see it

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Anonymous #10 1w

Yeah but the guys do it to trap women, whereas you’re probably genuinely catching feelings and not saying them because you have empathy, respect❤️

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Anonymous #10 1w

nah my best friend who’s gay also says men suck and that’s why we’re best friends. the grass isn’t any greener

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Anonymous #15 1w

Getting downvoted for pointing out casual sexism is crazy

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Anonymous #15 1w

Except no one cares because sexism wouldn’t be a thing if men were just not assholes like you’re only bitching because women are learning we can fight back😂

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Anonymous #19 1w

Local sexist says sexist thing World shocked

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Anonymous #5 1w

politics only play a partial role. most people are generally leftist and still arent fully awake, just hopping a bandwagon

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Anonymous #20 1w

like i said. actually participates in leftist causes.

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did i say dog or did i say cat?

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Anonymous #5 1w

literally my boyfriend😌

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Anonymous #15 1w

I’m the one getting upvotes🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #19 1w

Fr. Every “misandrist” I know has male friends/family that she would do anything for and a few men that she actually trusts. This isn’t a bias problem, it’s a shitty men getting away with it problem.

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Anonymous #19 1w

Gee you got me there Who woulda guessed in a comment section dominated by sexists a sexist comment would get upvoted

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Anonymous #10 1w

some are misogynistic 💔

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Anonymous #5 1w

My mom met my dad at a feminist protest. My experience is that all leftist men are abusive, performative PDF files.

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Anonymous #21 1w

Just sharing my experience.

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Anonymous #22 1w

oh defffff gotta stay away from those

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Anonymous #15 1w

More like who would have thought some dumb ass man saying something completely useless thinking people want to hear idiotic his opinion in GIRL TALK. Go be dumb with all your dumb friends

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Anonymous #19 1w

Ain’t my fault it was shown to me If I see something stupid I’m gonna point out it’s stupidity

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Anonymous #21 1w

that isn’t a healthy mindset, try therapy bestie

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Anonymous #5 1w

Neither is yours, I am in therapy. Never assume.

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Anonymous #21 1w

this seems like propaganda in favor of republicans… 😬

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Anonymous #26 1w

Or maybe it’s just that all men tend to suck, even the leftists. I think Republicans are shittier though because you kinda have to lack empathy or at least have only selective empathy to be ok with the racism

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Anonymous #5 1w

Nah this mindset will keep her safe from other shitty men. You have to sort through like 5 bad ones to find a half decent one, so it’s totally fair if she’s checked out.

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Anonymous #27 1w

Physically or psychologically?

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Anonymous #24 1w

physically. I’ve come across more personalities I’ve liked than faces tbh

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Anonymous #27 1w

This is so real especially once they start talking

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Anonymous #14 1w

i wasn’t even talking to you? please tell me how only looking to date men who meet a minimum of caring about women’s rights is a bad mindset? how is that at all the same as calling an entire group of people abusive performative pdfs? It’s ridiculous to be upset at the manosphere, but then repeat word for word the exact views that it tells men women believe. generalizing an entire group of people doesn’t do any of us good and it’s fucking weird that it’s normalized when it comes to men

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Anonymous #5 1w

tbh yea

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Anonymous #5 1w

So confused but purrr

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Anonymous #5 1w

My man except he loves dogs!

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Anonymous #28 1w

red flag

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Anonymous #5 1w

No it fucking isn't

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Anonymous #5 1w

How is liking dogs a red flag

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Anonymous #28 1w

you wouldn’t get it

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Anonymous #12 1w

There is a specific reason I said “likes cats.” Cats have historically been associated with femininity (crazy cat lady vs man’s best friend) and a man who loves their cat and is comfortable with a cat is one who has already done some deconstruction of their masculinity. 28’s bf might be a great guy, but saying “except he loves dogs” implies he doesn’t love cats. Therefore her bf actually doesn’t meet my criteria at all, and her specifying that he loves dogs instead is traditional masculinity 🤮

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Anonymous #5 1w

You sound stupid af

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Anonymous #28 1w

not my fault your response to “loving cats makes you cool” was “oh but MY bf loves dogs 🥺🥺” go cry about it girl. not saying your bf is a bad dude but he 100% is not the kind of man i’m talking about

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Anonymous #5 1w

Ohhhh ok I see what your saying

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Anonymous #12 1w

i’m not tryna hate on her bf yk? it’s not a good metaphor but just like imagine if i said to check if a white person even has any black friends if you wanna see they aren’t performative and they responded “oh well my bf loves his asian friends” it’s not a good metaphor but like does that make sense? that’s cool that your bf loves his asian friends but that isn’t what we are talking about and doesn’t have anything to do with the standard i was talking about

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Anonymous #5 1w

You don't know shit about my man. Go fuck your cats.

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Anonymous #5 1w

You are hating on him but he's a better man than anything you could even land. Guessing you can't land much.

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Anonymous #28 1w

Lmao i’m a lesbian married to the loml for 2 years but okay gal. It’s also weird that you jump to saying fuck my cats? What did they ever do to you? I didn’t say fuck your dog, nor did I EVER hate on your man. I am simply pointing out that I think exclusively loving dogs AND NOT cats, is a symptom of the patriarchy. Him falling into that category does not at all make him a bad man. I never said he was a bad person sister and I am sorry that you are so defensive. I hope that you feel better soon

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Anonymous #5 1w

I didn't ask for your life story

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Anonymous #5 1w

You're also stupid af for thinking he doesn't like cats too

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Anonymous #28 1w

I mean saying except he likes dogs implies he does not like cats

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Anonymous #12 1w

He loves dogs but only likes cats. Just because you love something doesn't mean you can't like something else.

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Anonymous #28 1w

I’m not sayin that, I’m saying the specify wording implied that he liked dogs and not cats

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Anonymous #12 1w

No it didn't, you're just stupid.

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Anonymous #12 1w

Get a life

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Anonymous #28 1w

You say like you aren’t arguing about this too 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #12 1w

That proves nothing

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Anonymous #12 1w

fr lol when i say “find someone who loves cats” and she responds “i found someone except he loves dogs” the reasonable conclusion is her bf doesn’t love cats. she’s super defensive and thinks i hate her bf or something just because he (and her) accidentally bought into a little bit of patriarchy

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Anonymous #28 1w

girl you salty asf you the one who told my cats go go fuck themselves and the one who told me i’d be alone and can’t find a man. you just nasty fr

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Anonymous #5 1w

We fucking didn't, stop with that patriarchy bullshit.

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Anonymous #28 1w

Whether it pisses you off or not doesn’t make it less true. Numerous papers have explored the relationship between misogyny and dislike of cats: The Case for Cats, Just Another Cat Lady, Pets, Gender, and Bias: The Interplay of Pet Attitudes and Gender Perceptions, A Sociology of Childless Cat Ladies That’s 4 sources. Do you have any or will you continue being pissy that your only defense is nastily saying “fuck your cats”? If you actually read the papers, and have a real response plz lmk!

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Anonymous #28 1w

I think scientific papers do very much so prove something

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Anonymous #5 1w

He doesn't dislike cats you stupid bitch

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Anonymous #12 1w

It's not the case with my bf. It's my life and you don't know shit about it. Stop acting like you do.

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Anonymous #28 1w

🙄 I know what you told me

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Anonymous #12 1w

No you fucking don't, fuck off.

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Anonymous #28 1w

I objectively know the stuff you told me 😭

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Anonymous #28 1w

awwww do you not like being being told that you and your little boytoy are patriarchal misogynists? lmk how being a trad wife feels

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Anonymous #5 1w

I don't like being told something that isn't true. That's pretty normal. Hope your cats die and your ugly ass wife divorces you.

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Anonymous #28 1w

you’re such a nasty individual fr omg

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Anonymous #5 1w

Cry about it

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Anonymous #28 1w

Girl everyone here is on my side because you’ve been nothing but a nasty bitch saying disgusting things about me and my relationship and refusing to even acknowledge the literally academic research behind my point. Despite all of that, I have never stooped to calling your bf ugly, hoping they leave you, or telling your innocent pets to go fuck themselves. I’m not sure what in your life is making you lash out in this immature way but I hope you feel better soon and can be more mature.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Your research is factual and I'm not arguing about that. But you're wrong about my life and my bf. That's what pissed me off. Stop being an arrogant bitch.

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Anonymous #28 1w

If my research is factual then you and your bf may possible have biased attitudes towards cats due to the patriarchy in our society. That’s a fact lol. You suck so much and just hate to be told that MAYBE when we grow up in this racist patriarchal society we might have some unconscious biases as a result of that. I do, everyone does, and so do you. You think you’re so special and different but you are not. You are cruel to me and my pets for no reason.

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Anonymous #12 1w

lmao 28 blocked me because she got sick and tired of being told that she can’t argue w the factual research

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Anonymous #5 1w

Ate them up ngl

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Anonymous #5 1w

you tore 😂😂😂

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Anonymous #27 1w

Huh?! 😭

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Anonymous OP 1w

thank you op i hope you find a good man

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