Well sometimes life events come up that make it so you can’t pull through on the plans. Being respectful and letting them know is okay. But yeah, agreeing to plans then not committing to them because your s/o wants to have a date night is pretty pathetic. Also, slightly manipulative if he knew about said plans ahead of time

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Tea. I was raised that if you made plans with someone and something else you wanted to do came up you either did the thing you already agreed to or neither

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