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Girl Talk 4w
He ghosted me all day and I said fuck it and texted him! Now it looks like I triple texted him! Ahhhhh I wanna run into the highway rn😭🚗
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Anonymous 4w

He sucks. I just spent so much time trying to justify a guy who would casually ghost me for days cause he was ‘busy’ and I just know I would never treat anyone like that. I know you must like him a lot, but I don't think someone who deserves your attention would treat you that way

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Anonymous 4w

Run into the h1ghway because you’re fucking stewp!d

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Anonymous 4w

I unsent it. I don’t want to seem desperate 😭

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Anonymous 4w

i think i have a unique perspective cause i lowkey act/think like a man in talking stages cause im soo avoidant attachment and uninterested. when i dont reply for a day i would get the ick so bad if he texted me again or asked where i was (this is only if ur not dating ofc, if dating than disregard). cause the LAST thing i want is an emotionally intertwined relationship. i dont want the other person dependent on me at all. i wanna go off the grid for the day and not be reminded the other

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Or should I say fuck it and send him a message 😖

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

wait till morning

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

if he still ghosts, tell him to just tell you if he’s not interested anymore so he can stop wasting your time

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

why on earth did you censor highway & stupid but not fucking???

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

So I don’t get reported for “violence” and “bullying”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

person exists. its not that im too busy to text, its that i don’t want to think of them rn (cause we arent dating) and i hope they have an emotionally independent enough life outside of me to be fine w that. idk thats just my perspective as someone who gets the ick when someones more into me than i am them

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

guys expect this kinda stuff from girls tho so all is not over, just know that if u cut that stuff back itll make him chase u harder. its not that he doesnt see something with you, its that ur not there yet in his mind so his energy is places elsewhere. u gotta play the dance

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

ppl are down voting but as a fellow avoidant everything she said is true 😭 not saying it’s right but it’s true. don’t date us avoidants it’s just gonna hurt fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Just say you're a piece of shit lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

so we cant be honest anymore? i dont date ppl so i dont hurt anyone but my experience can be useful to know that its not that the person hates u, they just dont want to get emotionally involved yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I swear every anxiously attached person likes to victimize themselves and make avoidants seem like the evil one💀 From our perspective, y’all are invading our space and being overwhelming. So are we victims too?🤔 Like nobody wants someone on their tail 24/7. Touch grass and find a hobby.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

yes i agree but only in the cases where the avoidant hasnt love bombed. if theyve been clear with their level of emotional involvement since the beginning, smth can be said about the emotional labor one puts on us. cause why am i the bad guy for being myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Completely agreed. I personally see both sides as unstable. Balance is key (aka a secure attachment style). I just don’t like how those with an anxious attachment style are always seen as the only victims when we’re literally suffering as well. I wish people understood the type of trauma that makes us want to be hyper-independent, emotionally distant, and/or isolate ourselves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Just because you passionately exhibit your anxiety, anger, and sadness doesn’t mean we don’t feel those things as well. Like I could literally be sad with a straight face and never tell anyone.

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