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Im having my first time ever with my boyfriend this weekend, Im in college now but wasnt taught much by parents, does it really hurt??? What should I expect? 😭
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Anonymous 4w

use a condom, use lube, it can hurt yes

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Anonymous 4w

Everybody’s first time is kinda different, I didn’t really feel anything at all the first time but it can hurt for some people. Just make sure you’re prepared properly

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Anonymous 4w

it does for some people others does not depends on a lot of factors

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Anonymous 4w

my first time really didn’t hurt at all, use lube, makes it sm easier and better! or lots of foreplay. especially with condoms, cause they can cause more friction.

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Anonymous 4w

Foreplay is key

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Anonymous 4w

Lots of foreplay and use protection!

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Anonymous 4w

Why would your parents teach you anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

don’t expect it to be good the first time either

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

it’s not like how it is in the movies at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Like they never had the ‘talk’ with me, like ever, or what to expect when the ‘time comes’. The most Ive ever gotten was legit sex ed in school 😭 lots of people I know had their parents sit them down but mine never did

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Is it like unbearable or just like a small pain 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah no Im definitely not expecting much Im just nervous that itll hurt bad 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

well I’m gay 😭😭so idk first hand but level of arousal / size of the man is going to determine all that as long as he’s not being rough and rash it’ll be fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

it shouldn’t hurt bad, maybe a little, it isn’t nearly as bad you’re thinking

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