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I’m not a girl but I need advice for you all I meet this girl on tinder and we meet up and then we did the deed and then she tells me that it was too much and ghost me what should I do bc my feelings are hurt and I felt used and yes I had a crush on her
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Anonymous 10w

Me and her go to the same college btw

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Anonymous 10w

honestly the best thing is to let it go, because that’s kind of a sucky quality to not be able to fully and maturely converse with someone and say you didn’t want anything. On the other hand, you could reach out to her and ask her what she meant and explain yourself if you’re comfortable. I think this situation lacks a lot of emotional maturity

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Anonymous 10w

i understand that your feelings are hurt but she did explain herself. she was overwhelmed and it was too much for her. i think the best thing you can do is leave her alone and do your best to move on

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Anonymous 10w

that’s so valid for you to be feeling like that. She didn’t really give you an explanation. If you want, you can dm me and we can talk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Idk hot to send u a dm can u send me one

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