Idkk because I let them hug me first and then I just decide where to put my arms based on where they hug and that’s for all genders lol
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Anonymous7w
Asking because i go arms above by habit but I dated a guy who was tall and always trying to correct me to hug below 😵💫
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Anonymous7w
it’s more comfortable for me to go below but i do both
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Anonymous7w
i’m a fan of latching on to my boyfriends waist
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Anonymous7w
depends how much i like them, if it’s a platonic hug or like a family member, i hug their waist, if it’s a bf or a really close friend and the hug is meaningful, then above their shoulders