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Basically none of the adults in my life have had good marriages. I’ve talked about marriage as the eventual goal with my bf but tbh after my parents divorce marriage just freaks me tf out. Girlies what are your thoughts on marriage?
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Anonymous 1d

I would love to get married it’s just finding the right person that seems so hard. And I definitely don’t want to settle and marry someone I don’t love or who won’t treat me right.

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Anonymous 1d

I think pre marital counseling is a non negotiable especially when you’ve grown up watching not so good marriages !! def the case for me, I will not move forward without consulting someone really wise in that area. it definitely doesn’t guarantee success but a lot of divorced people would have never gotten married in the first place had they went

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Anonymous 1d

I haven’t had many good marriage role models either and I recently got married. I just try to keep in mind things I’ve seen other people do wrong and try to do better. Marriage is a choice and you have to choose to love your partner every single day. I haven’t been married long but so far it’s been amazing bc I’m with the most amazing guy ever

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