hate just giving advice to break up but honestly it’s not worth it for either of you. yes if he wanted to find other ways to get out of the dorm, he really could, i agree. but it’s also okay that he wants to join a frat. you don’t deserve to go through the appetite loss and the issues with him partying, and he doesn’t deserve to be kept from doing something he wants to do

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Doesn't join. I'm just genuinely so confused on what to do right now because it seems as there's no way to compromise and I don't want to loose him. Is it worth it for me to just deal with anxiety so bad I loose my appetite when he parties.

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Frats / sororities. I have always kept that mindset but now this year his mind has changed. Just last week he told me that the only way to not sit in your dorm is to join a frat. I love him so much but I physically don't think I am capable being with someone who is required to party 3+ times a week. Half of my mind is saying if he wants to preserve the relationship he would find other ways to have fun but half of me is saying he will resent me if he…..

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