There’s nothing wrong w being a weird girl who’s hot. I openly admit I’m an odd and instead individual. Men just can’t handle that I’ll ask weird questions and that I have a whole question based system they have to answer before I even consider talking to them. If I can’t go out on a rock hunting date w you I don’t want it lol
youre right that one is centrally weird and secondarily hot and vice versa, but there isn’t really a how or why. it’s more of a conceptual thing than a real life thing, so it’s not like there are really traits that make it that way. it’s up to interpretation. i just saw a tweet about it online so it’s not really serious. idk if that explanation helps much, but it’s not smthn that you’d ever encounter in the real world