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Girl Talk 5w
i open up to my friend abt having ocd that happens in social situations. i said something weird that she didnt like. i apologized& said ill be aware of it going forward. we saw each other everything seemed fine now she hasnt texted me for 2 day
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weird/inconsiderate behavior
eh understandable if shes mad
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Anonymous 5w

btw the something weird i said was i pointed out that the people right next to us seemed cliquey (they chose not to sit next to us because there wasn’t enough seats but i interpreted it negatively) in front of new ppl we just met and no one cared but she felt like they i was making her look bad

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Anonymous 5w

Does she normally respond quickly? I got friends that don’t text back much, not me or anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

obviously i felt terrible for projecting negative assumptions too and i did apologize how that was fucked up of me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

im normally hyperaware of social things like this so i really dont know why i said that. some demon came over me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Hey girlly- just a heads up that what you’re doing right now- thinking and thinking and thinking about it- is called rumination. It’s another OCD trap. Make peace with it. What was said was said. If she is a good friend I’m sure she is understanding. If she is not you undoubtedly deserve better than that. You are not a horrible person for “messing up” a social interaction. That’s not how living works. You lived you learned. You’ve done your due diligence and grown. Ball is in her court now. 💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank you so so so much💕 You have no idea how much this means to me and I appreciate your perspective so much. Thank you for being so thoughtful and kind

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

We talk multiple times a day or daily usually

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh yeah, she may be upset, it’ll probably pass. But I tend to find people who get easily upset with me tend not to be good long term relationships. Friendship or otherwise

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yup! Sorry Im replying so late, but she actually doesn’t seem to really have any friendships so I’m realizing this may be why

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