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Hey guys question sex hurts me really bad cuz i got vaginismus wondering how bad it hurt yall the first time/ first few times lmk dm me or comment under
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Anonymous 3d

15-20 mins of good head always. no penis in vagina until you're fully FULLY turned on

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Anonymous 3d

Oh trust me it was painful af for the first 3 times I tried. It literally would not go in without it stinging. If it helps maybe lube can help it go in easier and remove the friction that causes the pain. I used lube the 4th attempt and I felt a bit of pressure at first but after a couple seconds I didn’t feel any pain

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Anonymous 3d

Lube helps a lot. The first time it hurt but bc nothin b was ever up there. Are yall doing enough foreplay? Do all positions hurt? I find that tor me even now missionary is not comfortable

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Anonymous 3d

I have this and my first time hurt like a bitch. Now with my bf I have sex all the time and it doesn't hurt. In the end just make sure you're really wet and are with a great partner!

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Anonymous 3d

The first time? No, I stopped him because penetration hurt so bad.

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Anonymous 2d

I already answered it, the pain went away when I had sex with my bf. I was actually wet and turned on.

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Anonymous 2d

Lube and being wet worked for me idk

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Anonymous 2d

Can you read? I said it doesn't hurt with my bf because he's a good partner.

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Anonymous 2d

I can't lmao I have a glitch and can't directly reply to comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Oh sick no for us it hurts the whole time i be doing yoga to try and help but idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I know of a friend who literally had to go to like therapy 😭 vaginismus is no joke

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I cant go to therapy thoooo i live at home and cant tell my parents this i never even got diagnosed, the lady that did my pap smear said i might and that was it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

My guy doesnt do head 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Ohhh no I get it I also live with my family. This sounds so bad but there is this thing called “poppers” (normally you can find it in a sex store) and I use it when I have done too many rounds and it starts to sting. It basically is a muscle relaxer and it helps! But it’s a “drug” idk how far you’re willing to go 😭 just a suggestion you don’t have to follow this one

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Its a pill?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

that is a breakupable offense. do u have a toy he uses on u at LEAST? we were not meant to just go straight to intercourse esp when u have vaginismum

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

But like u didnt do anything about it? U just beared w the pain?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Its a fwb so im not that serious abt it head feels weird to me anyways but i was disappointed that he doesnt do head

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

if sex is painful then u need to be that serious about this

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

And like did it continue to hurt following? Like how did u overcome this

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Bro why r u so mean u posted 2 separate comments i didnt notice that the lil number at the top is the same i thought u were 2 dif people theres more then just u commenting if u want ur comments together u reply to ur own comment so that its directly under

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

I literally made this post to ask questions about peoples experiences if ur gonna get annoyed at me for asking questions then dont comment under nobody forcing u to talk abt ur experiences

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Ok but dont be mean ur not the only one commenting under this post

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

It’s more like a mini bottle that you smell and inhale the fumes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

Also i asked a valid question i asked how u overcame the pain after the first time

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

I asked how u overcame it was it something that simply went away after the second time? or did it take multiple tries? Did u do or use anything that helped? I just wanted more info

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