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Girl Talk 6w
I'm not upset that my bsf doesn't want to be friends with my bf. it sucks but they don't mesh so wtv. I'm upset bc she let him think they were friends before telling him he isn't allowed to text her ever again, even to invite her to hang out with us both
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Anonymous 6w

he literally never contacted her besides sending a meme or two and inviting her hang out with both me and him. It was only ever to hang out as the three of us. and suddenly he isn't allowed to text her at all. idc if that's what she wants, i just wish she wouldn't have pretended to be his friend (he doesn't have many so any friends he gets he appreciates) and then tell me to tell him not to talk to her. I saw every message, so ik nothing weird was going on too. she just suddenly decided this

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Anonymous 6w

Have you talked to her about this?

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 6w

yeah. she asked me to tell him to stop texting and all that and i asked why and at one point she claimed it was so her bf didn't get worried that a guy was texting her, and then another time she said just bc he texts too much (he only texted her maybe once every two or three weeks) and i told her that it was just kind of sudden and he'd be confused and hurt and she just pulled the bf excuse. but my bf has made no indication of liking her or wanting her ever.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

and the guy texting her thing would make more sense if she didn't have a bunch of single guys from HS that she texts more often than my bf ever texted her. so it just feels like a lie bc why can a bunch of single men text you but not my very taken and very not-into-you boyfriend can't? it also hurts bc i put a ton of effort into hanging out with her and her bf and making him welcomed into our group and she isn't putting that effort back into welcoming mine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I would’ve concerned about her bf being controlling or something. It doesn’t seem like she’s being honest but there isn’t anything you can do to force her to tell you either

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 6w

the thing is idk if her bf even actually said anything. he hasn't really seemed controlling at all, but if he did, why didn't he say anything about the single guys she texts? if they just don't like my bf as a person (which her bf doesn't get the right to say bc he's returned none of the effort my bf has into becoming friends) then just tell us that you don't like him. i'm sorry for ranting so much, im just hurt for him and don't know what to do. he's tried to be their friend and they just won't

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

No its totally fine and that really sucks, I’m sorry they are being like that

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 6w

we just need honesty, even if it hurts. my bf is autistic and it affects his ability to understand and form relationships the most, and he's extremely confused and hurt bc he thinks he did something wrong and doesn't know what he did so he can fix it bc she keeps changing her story. thank you for listening

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