I just saw them tell a girl who was struggling with codependency that she should leave her bf so he can’t leave her first. I know it’s scary and we want to protect ourselves, but leaving relationships because you’re anxious or worried about being hurt isn’t necessarily the best thing to do. Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. Ending relationships before any potential conflict so you don’t get hurt can be self-destructive and stop you from learning how to work through conflict

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