Either they don’t like u or they are inconsiderate enough to not make accommodations even for someone they like. In both cases I would not be close friends with those kind of people. I don’t eat beef or pork and it only took me stating it once or twice for my friends to get the message. That’s the kind of thing u remember if u care about someone. It doesn’t have to be shown by providing u a meal but not even letting u know is practically ensuring that u have to scramble to find one.