
but i only get approached at clubs, and usually by guys that clearly just wanna hook up. idk how to meet people beyond that! im not social so i dont go many places. and dating apps suckkkkk cause i need them to be rlly attractive to me, but then my lack of personality and charm turn them away if we ever do meet up
im attractive sure but i give off a certain “never been touched in her life and really needs to loosen the fuck up” that most men find unappealing. i also have such high standards its insane. i get repulsed at the first sign of mistreatment, or if theyre dumb (conversationally, not academically), or if theyre incapable. im OUT
im picky about looks when its dating apps, but if they have any amount of charm irl ik id fold. oh and im 100% avoidant attatchment but fr the first guy to approach me irl with charm, and really pursue me in a respectful, charming, and consistent way is gonna get 110% of me like part of me fears if somekne ever DOES make their way into my life, id never leave them