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Guys I’m feeling terrible bc I saw a guy I used to hook up with a while ago, who has a gf now, out at the bar and he insisted on hanging out with my friends and I after so we let him come, and then he didn’t have his house key so he stayed over (cont…)
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Anonymous 11w

And he eventually came into the room I was in insisting on hooking up and I kept saying no bc he has a gf and I didn’t want to do that bc I respect their relationship but he wouldn’t take no for an answer and I was still drunk at that point. I feel like it’s all my fault and I feel so guilty but I tried multiple times to make sure it didn’t happen but I couldn’t stop it

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Anonymous 11w

this is not your fault at all girl, you said no multiple times and he was the one that kept insisting. Thats all on him 🙏

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Anonymous 11w

Not to be crass, but it sounds like he almost assaulted you. You should definitely tell his gf, it’s not your guilt to live with, it’s his

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Anonymous 11w

I would wanna know if my boyfriend was a cheater AND a rapist. You’re saying you tried to say no and you weren’t being listened to. That isn’t a grey area ….

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I know I just feel so guilty, and one of the friends I was with just saw him with his gf out and I feel so bad for her, I want to tell her but I don’t want to be blamed for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i don't think there's a way that you won't be atleast partly blamed cause at the end of the day yall did sleep together but i def think you should tell her anyways even if it's hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

i agree, from the way u worded it it sounds like he forced himself on u

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Yeah he really didn’t give me an option to say no even though I tried to multiple times

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

i take what i said back ✋ if anyone guilts u for this they're fucked in the head

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