Anonymous #2 6w

Only family is a child and a mom currently working. The friends I’ve reached out to aren’t able to help or I just am not close to like that. Also it’s anonymous so whatever I say here gets thrown into the void cuz no one knows who we are duh. Some of yall are more supportive than others tho…

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Anonymous #1 6w

Just cuz his mom tends to be very destructive when she doesn’t get her way. She tried getting me arrested bc she didn’t like that I told my bf he should keep his job cuz it pays more than the other one she was trying to force him to switch to which led us to having to leave our trip earlier and going back to our state. She’s just done a lot of damage to many people and I’m scared what she would do to him out of anger

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Anonymous #1 6w

I also realized she used a love bombing tactic where she would get me gifts and do nice stuff for me to bring me closer to control the situation between my bf and I and when she realized I couldn’t be influenced by her, she started labeling me as controlling and told my bf he needs therapy because he needs to fixed and when the therapist said she was problematic she said she wasn’t the problem

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Anonymous swimreaper 6w

do you think you need to be with him if his mom keeps getting in the way? Is he trying to defend you against her? Or is he standing up to her at all?

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Anonymous #3 6w

like get some kind of documentation to defend yourself/your bf

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Anonymous #1 6w

I mean him moving out because he doesn’t want her to control him feels like a sign that he’s sticking by me. But he has also defended me time and time again. She once tried to bring over a girl to set him up with and he just straight up walked out of the house. Back when she was labeling me as controlling the entire family defended me and ended up calling her racist cuz she then tried to make me dance and said all Latinos dance according to her Latin friend (after she forced me to apologize-

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Anonymous swimreaper 6w

For leaving the trip despite the fact that she knew why we had to leave)

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Anonymous #3 6w

Downside is that it’s a small town and she’s friends with a majority of the police department considering the fact that her kids were friends with their kids. That’s why we went down a different route and had him record a video of all his belongings and say that he’s leaving on his own free will and a few other stuff. Also made sure he got his birth certificate and ssn card

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Anonymous swimreaper 6w

oh fuck that’s really unfortunate circumstances 😭

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