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Girl Talk 3w
I need big sis advice !! So i’ve been talking to this guy for abt a month, and i’ve started to realize i’d neverrrr date him..he’s just a bit strange. We’re gonna hang out this week so how do i lowkey friend zone him 😭🙏
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Anonymous 3w

I’d literally just slowly let it fizzle out by saying something came up, like idk your best friend is going through a tough time and you need to be with her and then don’t text, but if you want to actually communicate I’d say just say you’re not looking for a relationship anymore as the closer you guys got made you realize you need to do some self reflection or exploration or something.

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Anonymous 3w

As someone who has been on the other side of this situation, I agree with #1. Let it fizzle out and hopefully he gets the hint. Or just be like, I think I see you more as a friend. I was told I was seen more as a “little sister”. Which yea it’s gonna hurt a little, but it’s much better than being led on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

ahhh tysm i think i’ll do the second one cause i would be his friend but not a gf…if he doesn’t wanna talk to me after that then it’s his loss !!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

that’s exactly what i didn’t want to happen 😭 i don’t want to lead anyone on so i’ll definitely let him know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

The person was also my friend prior and we still chat every now and then. Hopefully it all goes good for u and he’s understanding

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