babygirl i am so sorry. fuck him. fuck every part of that. it is NOT your fault, i was raised in the same type of family and I still carry shame about what happened to me bc of it that i am working to let go. bottom line, you can never “make” another person make a choice like that. that only happens because the person doing it is worthless and morally bankrupt. cheers to the fact that he rots in hell 💞
It’s both. It’s the ideals of parents in what they expect from their children (fact checking if you get rapped and blaming women for putting themselves in situations where they can be rapped) and those decisions being informed by and stem from a maga mindset that has a screwed understanding of consent, pregnancy and abortion from rape and a collect understanding of how women should be moving abt society
It’s shitty parenting and only maga fathers (and perhaps mothers) are parenting this way. It’s bad parenting and it’s an ideal that is attached with conservative reps. I saying I would never expect a democrat or even a non maga rep to say this to their daughter, to not believe their daughter ever got put in a traumatizing and violating situation and going to the guy to see if it’s true. It may have been before 2016 that men thought this fs, but now? It’s roped in with maga. And for a parent to
It is maga, my dad hasn’t been the best father. But when he heard what the men behind us were saying about what they would do to my 14 year old sister he screamed at them and called the police. It is maga not shitty parenting, he might treat us like shit at times but would never let anyone else do it…..