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Okay so am I the asshole? My sister was left home alone with my two dogs. One of them is still young and not fully potty trained. I get home and she’s watching the tv and the younger dog is on the other side of a gate in a room where he shouldn’t be. 1/2
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Anonymous 6d

nta

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Anonymous 6d

I look at her and go “why is he in there” and she was like “oh I don’t know how he got in there.” I said “how did you not notice? Go check if there is poop or pee on the dining room carpet. She pokes her head into the room WITHOUT going to look and check for wet stains on the nice Persian rug. I tell her to actually go in there and check for wet spots and say “nobody should have to ask you to do it right the first time.” She’s saying I’m speaking down to her. My sister has always been 2/3

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

3/3 coddled by my parents and cannot take any criticism. She’s autistic but very high functioning. She gets offended easily and literally thinks she is always in the right. Like I’m simply just asking her to check and make sure the rug isn’t soiled. And WATCH THE DOGS. It’s not that hard. She’s so oblivious and unaware as well. It’s just the truth. Not trying to be mean. But anywho. Am I the asshole for telling her to do it right the first time?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

ur sisters. she needs someone to talk to her normally like tht and expect things from her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

See that’s where I’m at! Thank you for your insight. Like Ik I can be super blunt and pointed but 🤷🏻‍♀️ I shouldn’t have to ask anyone to do something right and clean up when it’s their mess

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

that's a lesson of life that she's better to learn now than later

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Damn right. Thank you

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