Girl Talk on Yik Yak | hey girlies im 19 and haven’t had my first anything. i feel like people irl just do not want me because when I try to initiate anything i just end up getting rejected or ghosted and then online i feel it’s strange to date someone miles away. advice?

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Girl Talk 7w

hey girlies im 19 and haven’t had my first anything. i feel like people irl just do not want me because when I try to initiate anything i just end up getting rejected or ghosted and then online i feel it’s strange to date someone miles away. advice?

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Anonymous 7w

My advice is don’t rush it! Find someone you actually want a relationship with and start there. Letting it happen more naturally is a way better experience (I did wait for it, I’m using what my friends have said as well) There’s no need to rush it. Society has a weird obsession with doing stuff like this, especially losing your virginity, at or before 18 but don’t give into that.

Anonymous 7w

I’m the same (18) but what I learned is that my overall comfort comes first. Your personal “achievements” are no one’s business but your own, you don’t need to tell the guy(s) your experience level. There are plenty of suitable people out there for you, I wish you good luck!