It’s not weird to bring it up, it’s healthy to tell the other person something like that. No reason to keep a secret, and the longer you don’t tell him the harder it’ll be to say it.

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not weird at all just next time ur gettin to it be like “hey i want to take this whole thing slow.. i’ve never done this kind of thing before”

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it’s not weird to bring it up at all! if yall get to that point ask if he can say something like "can you go slow, i’ve never done this before" it’s definitely best to bring it up beforehand so he knows to be more gentle

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