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Relationship problem. My bf apparently did coke on a business trip and I got info abt it and he didn’t tell me at all and he had a seizure today in hospital now but he didn’t tell me abt the line or seizure wtf do I do abt the relationship I’m pissed.
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Anonymous 13h

End ittttt Nah but real talk if you’re invested, have a serious conversation about it. This is stuff anyone SHOULD be telling their partner. It’s literally medically necessary. If he can’t or won’t understand that, consider that he might now be the one

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Anonymous 10h

Thank you all for answers bc I was stressed abt this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Not*

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Very reasonable and imma be real this happened one time already but it was apparently from what he said a joint he smoked got laced with it somehow he smoked it then had a seizure next to me on my bed and he didn’t know but idk if that’s true or not based off what I know now. I want to talk abt it but he isn’t replying dk if he wont or if hes just not allowed to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

I’m just stressing hard.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Yeah that sounds a littleeeee 🤨 unlikely? Maybe I’m just being critical.. I was gonna say it depends on how long you’ve been dating anything over like 4-6 months I’d be irritated if he didn’t tell me but also if someone had a seizure next to you in your bed I just have the feeling you would know or they should have at least told you if they knew it happened ?????? And not telling you if it was right next to you is insane fuckin behavior.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Idk if this is just me but this is giving red flags for pathological lying

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

I think he is being one he lies to me over stuff that doesn’t even matter and this makes me upset and pissed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

6 months together and this is disappointing to me and I’m just scared and upset apparently had 2 seizures today no one told me anything until now so I’m pretty upset abt everything and I’m in college so…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

All I’m saying is that it’s ONLY been six months… you can cut your losses…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

Hard agree.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Are we not all in college lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

Yes I get that 100% I want him to get better bc this is soemthing I cannot deal with and if he doesn’t understand that then I might have to but imma do my best it’s all if he can do his part

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