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How do I tell a guy I don’t want to date him when the only reason is because I don’t find him attractive? He’s very nice and fun i just am not attracted to him at all. I don’t want to be mean but I also don’t want to lead him on
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Anonymous 1d

it would be pretty mean to tell him he’s ugly. just tell him you don’t feel for him like that

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Anonymous 22h

Girl DONT you’d fucking kill him just let him down softly with a it’s not you it’s me. Your allowed to have preferences but you’d kill this guys self esteem like crazy

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Anonymous 1d

Tell him you only see the relationship continuing as friends because your future plans don’t align or something or you’re looking for something different

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

Especially if he’s like born ugly, some guys just need a shave and a haircut and maybe a salad and they’re gold, add skincare and that’s perfect. Some people get some bad genetic lottery don’t make this guy feel like he’s born wrong 😭😭

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