Anonymous #1 5w

My god that woman is incredibly fertile what the hell

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Anonymous #2 5w

they’re 9/10 struggling

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there's honestly no way u can fully take care of 4 kids under 4 in this economy without struggling

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I totally respect ppl who choose to live their life like that but you gotta understand that the cost of living is very high rn n putting that many kids into ur care while not being able to properly afford it is not a good decision. I hope she’s happy but from my perspective having to raise that many kids while dealing w financial issues cannot be an enjoyable life

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Anonymous #1 5w

I’m just saying that it’s kinda rude that OP said that she’d kill herself if she had those kids. I understand the economy sucks and that is why policies and bills supporting families are increasing.

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Anonymous #2 5w

Yeah and I respect the people who focus on living their lives/girlbossing because it’s their life. I understand what you’re saying about risking the happiness of the kids when you can’t actually support them. I grew up with 3 siblings and I always got Once Upon a Child and hand me down clothes/toys. I think that while having those kids would be stressful, if she truly wanted the kids then it would fulfill a certain happiness.

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Anonymous #3 5w

girl bye fuck u and them kids lmfao huh

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Anonymous OP 5w

You are incredibly rude to say you’d kill yourself if you had that. As if she is living the worst life imaginable by having multiple kids. It’d definitely be a tough time for awhile, but to say you’d kill yourself is crazy rude.

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Anonymous #3 5w

I get u thinking it’s rude but it’s also how she personally feels

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Anonymous #2 5w

yea idc if u think it’s rude or not u thinking im rude wont change the fact id still kms if it were me

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Anonymous #2 5w

i meant to post that just in the comments not replying to u #2

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Anonymous #3 5w

how is op speaking her truth rude? she never said anything about those kids specifically like where did u even get that?

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Anonymous #4 5w

and thats if ur lucky enough to come out of pregnancy and healing from it without any permanent complications

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I want that too WHEN IM MATURE ENOUGH AND FINANCIALLY STABLE. These girls, whose brains haven’t even fully developed, are NOT as ready as they think they are to be the sole provider and care taker to a tiny human being that’s actually alive. It’s not dress up and playing house. It’s real life, and these young social media moms do anything to make it seem like that’s how it is.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Well not unless you exploit them by shoving a camera in their face as soon as they leave your belly so u can make millions 😍👍

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Anonymous #8 5w

LMAO “better her than me” is so accurate

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Anonymous #10 5w

Yeah she must be crazy strong

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Anonymous #11 5w

Postpartum isn’t talked about enough!!!!

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Anonymous #4 5w

not at all. i didn't even realize i was struggling with it

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Anonymous #11 5w

I’m sorry for what your going through babes 🫶🏽

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Anonymous #4 5w

it's okay. it's gotten a lot better now that i can separate being a mom from being a human. the first few months are really hard then you get back to work you go back to school. You start dressing like yourself you put on your make up you go out and you do things. It's really helpful with my postpartum and also getting rid of his dad.😂😂😂

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Anonymous #11 5w

girl you work a full 40 hours, go to school for 28 AND are a mother on top of that???? you're on some super human level cause that's honestly so much to juggle alone

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Anonymous #1 5w

not true. that’s why there’s ppl who are rich in the world. I literally know someone who lives almost on the lake in a private area with almost 10 kids and two of them are special needs. it’s not impossible if you have a job that makes enough money.

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Anonymous #3 5w

idk why they downvoted this. two friends of mine committed in a year. stfu abt killing yourself if you were in their situation. you’re not. so stop complaining

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Anonymous OP 5w

how old are you? grow up a little bit. it’s not your life, why does it even matter to you?

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Anonymous #7 5w

that’s amazing for you!! I want to have twins:) wondering if i’ll get downvoted and hated one because I want two kids lmfao

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Anonymous #13 5w

i’m not arguing with ppl about my opinion and my feelings. something was on the internet so i made a comment about it 😬 again none of this or that changes how i feel so

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Anonymous #13 5w

Yeah I had 3 siblings so I kinda want 4 kids so this post bothers me a bit. Like, it’s not such a bad thing to have kids, ladies. I’ve noticed that most people in this community upvote more of the girlboss stuff and dislike the traditional stuff.

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Anonymous #3 5w

its not that people in here dislike traditional stay at home shit, its that they dislike the trad wife stuff thats just a bunch of bs to keep women subsurvient to men. the vast majority of ppl who make posts in here about "traditional" stuff are usually just trying to push a trad agenda or troll

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Anonymous #13 5w

no one is going to downvote you because you want kids, but they might downvote you for being annoying about it 💀💀

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Anonymous #12 5w

as the person who posted said they’d kill themselves because of it… 😍

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Anonymous #13 5w

if SHE, in her personal life, was forced to live that life (which is not what she wants) that’s how she would feel. it’s not about you? don’t fucking make it about you?

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Anonymous #12 5w

well the person she’s talking about has her own like and she made it about herself. it’s not cool. two of my friends committed this year. stop joking abt the shit. if your not going thru it, it’s not your problem.

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Anonymous #3 5w

It doesn’t matter what tf is fulfilling the mother’s happiness if she can’t financially support the children. Don’t have children you can’t afford. They are not dolls meant to keep you happy. They are humans

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Anonymous #13 5w

there are sooo many mothers who have struggles with those types of thoughts because of their kids, idk y ur acting like its new?

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Anonymous #14 5w

so, when she said she’d kill herself if it was her, does she know the ladies financials…? exactly how much the family makes?

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Anonymous #13 5w

not entertaining this, if you don’t like it, just block OP! and me while you’re at it! assuming you don’t just want attention?

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Anonymous #1 5w

and is she a mother? NO so she CANNOT speak on behalf of struggling mothers.

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Anonymous #12 5w

yall are hippocrates. and stop joking abt suicide.

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Anonymous #13 5w

hypocrites*

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Anonymous #12 5w

thank you for changing it, my autocorrect messed up when I sent ❤️

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Anonymous #13 5w

She probably does know the families financial situation because mommy vloggers constantly over share on the internet. And I’ve yet to see a young mother to multiple children post ab being well off financially on tiktok. Actually quite the opposite (besides Nara smith)

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Anonymous #14 5w

I follow many families who have 4+ children. They are living graciously. They make enough money. In addition, these moms who make content and are stay at home moms are trying to bring in more income, so they are doing amazing to provide for their children.

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Anonymous #13 5w

girl what? u dont have to be part of a group to back up their experiences. Like would i not be allowed to speak about the struggles of gay ppl if i wasnt gay?? thats dumb af

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Anonymous #13 5w

Good for you girl, now go touch some grass because you care way too much ab what some random person on yikyak said. Ur all up and down this comment thread 🫵😂

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Anonymous #13 5w

tbf a lot of those familiea who post their kids online like that are not showing the reality of rasing 4 kids and a lot of those older kids end up being exploited and parentified

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Anonymous #1 5w

we can’t speak on the struggles of racial injustice fully because we are not apart of their race. in addition, has this mom said she would commit suicide because of this? no, it’s someone saying if it was then they’d rather kill themselves. and you can vouch for people all you want, but if you don’t live the life they live, you will never understand it fully.

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Anonymous OP 5w

i mean if she is viral on social media, plus insta and facebook. well they get good income lol. you can make bank on social media.

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Anonymous #13 5w

just because u cant talk about an experience from your perspective because you haven't had it doesn't mean u cant uplift the voices of those who have had those experiences. To ignore those uplifting those voices because they themselves haven't had that experience is ignorant and downright stupid

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Anonymous #1 5w

so, i am ignoring someone who said they’d kill themselves if they had 4 kids at 23…? I’ve been saying in here that joking about suicide isn’t cool in the first place. THEY don’t even have 4 kids lmfao. She’s just stating she’d rather off herself then deal with 4 children. Okay… so then don’t have 4 children.

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Anonymous #1 5w

If that’s not any twins that’s probably a victim cause WHAT

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Anonymous #2 5w

Women are incredibly fertile after giving birth. That’s the secret to why they also say to wait 6 weeks post op

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Anonymous #3 5w

I would also kms if I had 5 under 5 at 23 or any age for that matter🫶🏻

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Anonymous #17 5w

No… they say to wait because your body is recovering from a massive trauma and it’s not safe to have sex after because it could cause damage

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Anonymous #17 5w

and infection fingers mouths and penis are dirty don't want sepsis

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Anonymous #1 5w

thank you. I feel like my child has helped me get my life together and honestly give me my will to live back. I'll do anything for him to have a good life that he deserves.

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Anonymous #17 5w

Also that doesn’t even make any sense. Here’s a quote tho “Women are generally not more fertile immediately after giving birth; in fact, they typically experience a period of reduced fertility”. Either you’re a man with a weird complex or a woman who needs to study her own anatomy

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Anonymous #16 5w

Plenty of women get pregnant soon after having a baby?

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Anonymous #17 5w

But that’s not because of an increase in fertility. That’s just because it was their ovulation period. No offense but you kinda sound like a dumbass who doesn’t know how the menstrual cycle works

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Anonymous #16 5w

No offense but “You can get pregnant 3 weeks after the birth of a baby, including if you're breastfeeding and your periods haven't started again.”

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Anonymous #3 5w

If you want kids, great! But I hope you and all the other ladies like u will wait for when you actually have your life together enough to raise real human beings with needs. I’m the product of teen pregnancy and I wouldn’t wish teen parents upon anyone based off my own experience.

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Anonymous #17 5w

I never said you couldn’t, but you stated that women are “more fertile” after pregnancy which is untrue. Fertility decreases. I never said infertile but clearly you can’t fucking read

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Anonymous #16 5w

Either 17 deleted their messages or got so angry that I was right they blocked me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous #16 5w

Ur blocked girly lol

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Anonymous #16 5w

Yeah that’s tough

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Anonymous #5 5w

Aww I made them too angry because they want to spew sexist incorrect wisetales

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Anonymous OP 5w

they always are. they just lie and say it’s sunshine and rainbows online bc they don’t want to admit they were wrong to have kids so young

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